Mid-January Reality: When the New Year Energy Fades and Real Life Starts
- Christopher Dotson
- Jan 14
- 2 min read

If January had a personality, mid-January would be the moment it clears its throat and says, “Okay… now let’s see what you’ve got.”
The excitement of the New Year fades quickly. The calendar fills up. The pressure returns. And suddenly, the version of you that felt unstoppable on January 1st feels quieter.
This is normal. This is human. And this is where real leadership begins.
Motivation is emotional. It comes and goes.
Leadership, on the other hand, requires something steadier.
That’s why the most effective leaders don’t rely on feeling inspired - they rely on strength.
Strength shows up when:
• You speak up even when your voice shakes
• You try something new and feel unsure
• You keep going when no one is clapping
That uncomfortable feeling? It’s not a sign to stop.
It’s a sign you’re growing.
Anxiety gets a bad reputation.
But at its core, it’s just fear that hasn’t been given direction yet.
When you reframe it -when you stop seeing it as a threat and start seeing it as information -it becomes one of your greatest leadership tools.
Highly successful people don’t avoid discomfort. They build a relationship with it.
They’re willing to look awkward longer. To stay in the learning phase. To manage social pressure without shrinking.
That’s not confidence. That’s practice.
At Holistic Leadership Solutions, we work with leaders who don’t want surface-level change.
Our Enterprise Leadership Development Program helps leaders:
• Build confidence that isn’t dependent on praise
• Navigate uncertainty without shutting down
• Lead from strengths instead of fear
• Stay grounded when things feel uncomfortable
This is NOT about fixing what’s “wrong.”
It’s about strengthening what’s already there.
Because real leadership shows up long after the excitement fades - in ordinary moments, when no one’s watching.
And if you’re still showing up?
You’re already doing better than you think.
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